What Is Life’s Biggest Decision?

Confession: I love reality TV. Specifically the kind that’s focused on people who are falling in love. 90 Day Fiancé? The Ultimatum? Sign me up for binge watching. There’s just something fascinating about watching questionable relationship behavior on camera. Like, you got engaged to someone you’ve never seen in real life? I have my popcorn. […]

Someday When I Retire

I’m done saving up all my wishes for someday when I retire. The math on that just doesn’t add up to a good life.

Welcoming Gender Non-Binary Workers

What happens on day one for gender non-binary workers matters. It sets the tone for the team, the employee, and says a lot about your culture.

Standing Out In Selma

I’m famous to queer kids in Selma, NC. Not just because I’m queer, but because I’m proof that they can live out loud and be happy someday too

No Rain, No Leaves

We give all the credit to hard work for transformation when change is a consequence of the conditions we live through.

Avoiding Lazy

If hard work made you happy? If not being lazy earned rest? I would be one of the happiest, most well-rested people in the world. But that’s not the formula.