Recruiting Advice From Katrina Kibben.

The way I have been embraced into little families along my path has been a surprise and delight I never imagined in this van life. The healing was unexpected, too.

When we don't say gay, we say a lot without saying anything at all. That queer love is wrong. We can fix it - with education and love.

No matter how much flexibility you introduce into your culture, everyone has work trauma. How you communicate about it can change everything - for your team, your culture, and your customers.

Subtle cues - the harassment you can't report - aren't spoken about enough in this country. Neither are the cues that tell us we do belong.

It's the littlest things that remind me I'm trans in a binary world. But there’s joy, too. Joy in seeing minds change and questions asked.

What does it take to be happy? What does it take to break a career mold? Optimism, for one thing.

Every day, we try to make rules to be right. But who wants to be right? Do you want to be right or happy?

When we take big leaps in life, or out of a plane like I did, it’s easy to think it’ll feel like flying. But first, it feels like falling.

Curiosity won’t kill you, but waiting until you die to live might. I talk to people who do it every day.

What's the difference between being alone and being lonely? TW: Suicide.

Stop looking around for answers and advice. You know what to do. This is your one and only life - you need to do what you like.

Saying goodbye to my life, I’ve been thinking a lot about directionless growth - a life without a destination and a good life compass.

I am trans, I work in HR, and I’m tired of hiding it from everyone. I can't hide who I am any more, even if I want to.

There will never be a "right time" for your sacred change - so why give your dreams the attention they deserve now?

How many times have you said "I wish I could pay you back for how kind you are" to a friend? Let's pay that kindness forward.

What if we broke all the rules and lived for silver linings instead of following rules made up by people we’ve never met who don’t know us? What would life be like?

You’re in a car on your way to heaven. Your life ends in 30 minutes. What would you regret not doing? What would you regret not saying? Who do you want to talk to?

Who loves who more? This question is silly. It also made me think about this idea of chasing balance and just how powerful and scary imbalances are. Way more scary than any costume.

What makes a good life? How do you know that you're doing it right, anyway? Here's what I've been thinking.

This week, I was speaking to entrepreneurs hiring in small towns. There's more on the line than their livelihood - they are powering the potential of a community.

Where do our responses and reactions at work originate? Is that the right question to ask when having a challenging moment in the office?

This Coming Out Day, I want to tell you a story about how coming out changed everything in my career (for the better.)

When bad things happen, we crave happiness. But what is happiness? Where do you find it? How does it feel?

My birthday blog for 2021. Let's talk about happiness and life. Change and evolution. Making wishes in a world that's pretty dark.

This is hard to say, but I have to put my letters on pause for now. It's a good reason. I'm working on a book!